September 11, 2010 (Sabbath)
My first Sabbath in Buea, was wonderful. As the speaker said at church, ‘The lazy man cannot enjoy Sabbath”, I may not have done much in skills, but I felt as if my brain had been worked overtime with all the acclimating this past week.
Another thing I learned from the speaker was that it doesn’t help speaking louder to try to be understood. Each time the translator was stuck on a word/idea the preacher would yell even louder. (Most of the time he was yelling, so it became louder to clarify the word!) I tried not to laugh, but it was great seeing this issue in another culture.
I really enjoy the church services here. For one thing I can understand them and they also have a lot of music/singing. (The Cameroonians sing so loud it’s like listening to the radio on blast, which means I can sing and no one hears me, it’s great!) Even though I do enjoy the service, I can’t say I particularly enjoy the pews since they kind of make my behind go numb. (I probably look like one of those little kids that can’t sit still, because of all the moving around I do) Okay, I really shouldn’t complain that much because the pews do have backs to them so I don’t have to scrunch over or work on my posture too much!
For everyone that said I couldn’t come back married… there may be an issue. We were told in church by the pastor that on one Sabbath he is going to have all the bachelor guys and all the spinster (single) ladies line up on either side of the church and be matched up. He even said that he would officiate the weddings right there in church for us to make it easier… How convenient, right?! Well, now I’m not sure if I can promise to not get married, there’s a lot to think about J
Later in the evening Moriah and I ended up heading over to Bill and Trixy’s for supper and games. Trixy had made some plantain chips that were perticularily yummy and I’m sure I ate half of them. Heather (one of the many Peace Corps workers in Buea) came over to join us and we got to listen to the horror stories of her time in another part of Cameroon. Apparently, her ‘mother’ there was a horrible cook, so between the cooking and the worms and amoebas she lost about 35 lbs. (For anyone looking for a diet plan, come to Cameroon!) Perhaps I should let Moriah do the cooking so I don’t starve us!
September 15, 2010 (Wednesday)
This evening I got to play the most entertaining game of Snakes N’ Ladders while visiting Moriah in the hospital. She had been on duty so I decided to go keep her company (There isn’t much happening in the hospital at night, at least not right now). This Snakes n’ Ladders was an HIV version, (makes it sound like some version of the Bible, doesn’t it??). So, in order to move spaces you would have to answer a true or false question relating to HIV/AIDS. It kept us pretty entertained for most of the evening and we took out some of the best questions. Here they are…
Doctors and nurses cannot get HIV.
To abstain from sex will cause physical harm.
If you are infected with HIV, excess intake of alcohol kills the HIV virus in the body.
People who don’t drink beer cannot get HIV.
You can get HIV from hugging.
AIDS is a disease for white not blacks.
AIDS does not exist.
Pastors cannot get HIV or AIDS.
Fat women cannot get HIV so it is safe to have unprotected sex with them.
HIV can be spread standing close to someone.
Rich people do not get HIV.
Churchgoers do not get HIV.
If you have sex with a virgin you can be cured from HIV.
It is safe to have sex with a mentally disturbed person, as they do not get sick.
If you touch a sweating person you will get the HIV disease.
You can get HIV from wearing the clothes of someone with HIV/AIDS.
Only sinners get HIV and AIDS.
Handsome men cannot have AIDS so they will not give anyone HIV.
Some people who are infected with HIV continue to have sex with other people
You cannot get HIV if you sex standing up.
IF you know you have HIV you should have as many sexual partners as possible.
Condoms are not for Namibians.
AIDS means American Idea to Discourage Sex.
If you there’s any clarification needed on these True or False questions. Let me know, I can check the cards out and give you the right answers.
September 17, 2010 (Friday)
Sunday was Moriah’s and my laundry day. With all the humidity the clothes didn’t dry till Wednesday and were also moldy! We put some of the clothes out on the line, which helped a little, but with the sudden rain showers we thought we’d better bring the clothes in to our room. The problem is that our room now reeks of mildew… ugg! I can say that we’ll have some pretty serious muscles from all the washing clothes by hand.
Since the message of our hospital opening has been mainly through word of mouth we only had one patient. The mother of the patient came in saying that her ‘baby’ boy was sick- He was by no means a baby, unless you consider a 20 year old a baby. Since we had no other patients it was fine that we had him in a women and children’s hospital J The mother was also trying to get Moriah and I married off to her son. (I’ll let Moriah have that one, I’ll find mine at church!) On one of the evenings I was sitting on the breezeway of the hospital singing and the mother came out to join me. It took a bit to figure out a song that we both knew, but finally we figured out What a Friend We Have in Jesus and How Great Thou Art. That was probably one of my favorite memories of this week so far!
All this last week I have been on the day shift with Christiane. That means I work from 8-6. With the lack of in-patients we’ve ended up working at the clinic most of the time. I was able to work at the front desk with Helen admitting patients. So instead of sitting in the nursing lounge twiddling my thumbs, I got to have more patient contact. Yay! One of the many nursing duties that I was able to do this week included cleaning out ears. The first time I saw it done, I was quite grossed out because of the gunk that came out of the ear. The second time when I got to do it, it wasn’t so bad. After cleaning the ear out for one gentleman he stated, “I can hear the rain now!” (It had been pouring all that morning apparently his ears had been really clogged!) Baby Grace came in again to get her burn cleaned. (About a month ago she had pulled a pot of boiling water off the stove and burned the side of her face and shoulder.) This time it wasn’t quite as traumatic cleaning her wound, mostly because I wasn’t the one torturing her I think. There was another guy that came in with a pinky that had been smashed in a van door. It was quite a gruesome sight yet very fascinating also. Another fun thing I got to do in the clinic was explain to a couple of young ladies their menstrual cycles. Calculating when they were more likely to get pregnant and when they weren’t. You have no idea how hard that is when you don’t speak French! Christiane was there helping me out, so if I didn’t make sense she would translate.
There are a couple things that I haven’t completely gotten used to in the hospital. First off would be the HIV testing. It’s really sad seeing just how many of the patients turn out positive. There was a couple that came in this week for premarital testing. The test only takes about 5 minutes and so we saw pretty quickly the results; one was positive and the other was negative. I can’t imagine being at that point in a relationship and having to make a decision that serious! The second thing I haven’t completely gotten used to is the lack of aseptic technique. The nurses don’t wear gloves to do any (or VERY few) injections and if they do use the gloves and they ‘don’t get them dirty’ with blood, they hang them up to be used again. Whenever that happens I think of Donna Kopf (my EMT instructor) and how she would kill me if I did that in her class!J Hopefully I don’t become too used to not switching gloves that I end up failing my clinicals once I get back to the states!
One thing I’ve learned about the Cameroonian culture is that they don’t eat. No, seriously they eat like 2 (at the most) meals a day and they’re like 12 hours apart. Most of the food they eat is meat and whatever else they eat has copious amounts of palm oil in it. Not very healthy, but scrumptious nonetheless. Which brings me to my next thought. Meals. This week are meals have included: spagetti with palm oil and salt; brick bread with eggs and some kind of fruit; mushy mixture of nasty cereal; guava, oranges and rice. Then I also attempted making a gravy and we put that on spagetti and sweet potatoes… all I can say is, ‘interesting’ and we will definitely lose that 35 pounds I mentioned earlier. (Moriah will need to start cooking soon!)
September 18, 2010 (Sabbath)
Last night I had a sleep over in the hospital with Lea and Moriah. I ended up reading to Moriah till 11 and then fell asleep to the very off key singing of the evangelical church across the street. They normally go quite late into the night, but they don’t bother me.
Moriah, Trixy and I hung out here at the hospital while the rest went to the district get-together in Dbuntja. (Once a quarter the churches in the area get together.) We had Trixy over for lunch in our little room and both Moriah and I cooked so I think it was fairly decent. It’s been nice just relaxing even though Moriah is technically on duty. There hasn’t been any patients needing to be admitted so we’ve hung out blogging and chilling.
In summary…
Realized that Americans are not the only ones who raise their voice to be ‘understood better’.
Has the mold smell permeating my room
I love my scrubs!
I feel like there are tons of bugs crawling all over me…which could be true
Our bread tastes like wood varnish because of our new cupboards.
The bathroom door won’t stay closed and you can see right out to the front of the house while you’re on the toilet!
My blanket smells like a wet dog
Our salt is wet
I will be married by the time I come back… ??